tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802153206102856416.post5926730243942061472..comments2024-03-26T05:16:24.571-07:00Comments on Equine Insanity: The ArenaKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00250005101735182059noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802153206102856416.post-81080859119123996512016-02-22T10:30:56.561-08:002016-02-22T10:30:56.561-08:00Yes, you are right, there is a lot of self-loathin...Yes, you are right, there is a lot of self-loathing behind judgmental behavior. And at the root of self-loathing is shame, which Brené Brown talks about a lot. We all have shame, no matter how much we think we don't. Shame triggers a lot of unwanted and unpleasant behavior, which Brown calls shame shields. Which is what the cheap seaters are using to avoid confrontation with their own shame. ! Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250005101735182059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802153206102856416.post-19680343865066404972016-02-22T07:55:20.151-08:002016-02-22T07:55:20.151-08:00I saw her Ted Talk and loved it. The fact is, ther...I saw her Ted Talk and loved it. The fact is, there are people out there who love to trample on us when we expose ourselves. They are definitely the ones in the cheap seats. I think they are, deep down, self-loathing individuals, but it doesn't make it any easier to be at the receiving end of their criticism, gossip or sarcasm. I think those people are actually few, but they can seem like many in their power to hurt. Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14303523299217618526noreply@blogger.com